Advice Girl

"I am four months pregnant and I didn't tell my best friend that I was pregnant until I was three months. Now she is not really talking to me because I didn't tell her of the pregnancy right away. I think she wants me to apologize to her for not telling her. My question is, should I?"


How is it your friend's privilege to feel hurt about you not running to her right away to tell about your pregnancy? Was she a part of the impregnation process or something? If not, then I don't see how she has a right of passage to feel hurt or offended. You're the emotional one at the moment after all.

However close you are, three months is not that much of a time. It's not like you're eight months and she only just noticed.